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        • The Disclosure Prep Manual is being offered in the hope that it will positively impact your practice and your clients, building your confidence to feel thoroughly equipped and supported as you guide your clients through the process of Disclosure.

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        • Couple’s IntensivesDesigned for couples who are either healing after betrayal, are struggling to work through conflicts, or who simply want more play and connection in their relationship.
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        • Individual IntensivesDesigned for individuals who are healing childhood wounds and working to change relational patterns stemming from imperfect parenting and insecure attachment.
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        • Sex After BetrayalDesigned for women who have experienced sexual betrayal in their adult partnered relationships
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        • Sex Addiction TreatmentIf you or someone you love are struggling with sexual addiction, there is hope. Your relationships can heal, life can regain meaning and purpose, and sex can once again become a source of joy.
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        • Partner BetrayalBetrayed partners need help navigating the fragmenting experience of betrayal trauma. And they need a clear path lighting the way to hope and healing.
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        • Childhood TraumaUnderstanding your story is the key to healing, freedom and joy in your life and relationships. Let us help you change your story.
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        • Recovering RelationshipsGrow your relationship by learning how to communicate openly, show up authentically, foster emotional safety and co-create life-enhancing sex together.
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        • A Letter From The FounderLearn more about our name change to the Relational Recovery Institute and new offerings that are available.
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Couple’s Intensives

Accelerate healing and create real transformation through a couple’s counseling intensive.

Our long-term romantic relationships are where we experience some of our most meaningful moments. The joy of being fully known, loved, and accepted. The wonder of creating family together. The excitement of shared dreams.

Unfortunately, our love relationships are also where we experience some of our hardest moments. We can feel betrayed, misunderstood, unimportant and alone. Despite our longing for safe secure connection with our partner we can struggle to create and maintain it together.

Our couple’s intensives, led by Bruce Butler LPC, CSAT, are designed to help you learn the skills and tools to deeply connect with one another in a way that reshapes your bond and moves you toward the intimacy you long for.

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Healing Betrayal Injuries
Surviving to Thriving
Resolving Conflicts

For those couples who are repairing their relationship after betrayal, the work of truly healing the emotional and sexual injuries is essential. Without the intentional and carefully guided process of meeting one another in the pain and hearing one another’s deepest truths and experiences, the relationship can continue to be haunted by the echoes of betrayal.

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Do you want more? Perhaps your relationship is doing well overall and yet you still long for a deeper sense of connection, adventure, and play with your partner. This intensive will help you identify barriers and move through them while teaching you skills and tools that will help you move into the “more” that you have been longing for.

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Is there an issue that you keep running into in your relationship over and over again? Despite your best attempts to resolve it together you find yourselves back stuck in the emotional mire? This intensive will be customized to address the issue that you feel you need support around to help you truly move through the stuck places in your relationship.

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These intensives ARE a fit for you and your partner if…

  • You have experienced betrayal in your relationship and have completed the initial stages of healing including a full therapeutic disclosure.
  • You have not experienced betrayal in your relationship but have other issues that you want to spend focused, intentional time working through together.
  • You are both fully committed to participating wholeheartedly in the intensive to create change in your relationship.
  • You can drive or fly to Leesburg, Virginia to participate in the intensive in-person (we do not offer online or virtual couples intensives at this time).

These intensives are NOT a fit for you and your partner if…

  • You have discovered betrayal in your relationship within the last six months and are in the initial stages of healing or have not completed a full therapeutic disclosure.
  • You have already made the decision to leave the relationship and are only seeking help to appease your partner.
  • You are looking for an intensive that facilitates completing a therapeutic disclosure (we do not offer disclosure intensives).

Bruce Butler, LPC, CSAT

Bruce Butler is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Virginia. He is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and is also in the process of completing his certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples.

Bruce specializes in working with couples who are struggling with issues such as communication problems, betrayal or infidelity, and sexual addiction. Bruce works from an attachment perspective helping couples to create emotional safety, deep bonding and connection within the relationship.

Bruce received his Masters in Counseling in 2010 from Liberty University. He is a member of the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals, the Northern Virginia Licensed Professional Counselors Association, the American Association of Christian Counselors, and the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy.

If you are ready to enroll or want to explore more about whether a couple’s intensive is right for you and your partner, click here to learn more and submit the interest form.

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Disclosure Prep Manual License Agreement

For Licensed Clinicians, CSAT Therapists/Candidates and APSATS Certified Specialists and Coaches Only

I agree that I am either: a licensed clinician working within the scope of my professional license(s) and parameters of my governing state board(s); a certified sex addiction therapist or candidate (CSAT); or an APSATS certified partner specialist or coach.  If I am not a certified CSAT clinician, or a licensed clinician experienced with sex addiction treatment, I certify that I am working under the supervision of a certified CSAT supervisor or a licensed clinician experienced in the treatment of sexual addiction, partner trauma and disclosure facilitation.

Licensing & Ethical Guidelines

I understand that state law and ethical guidelines differ from state to state and country to country. I agree that I will check with my licensing board, membership organization or attorney and agree to make any changes needed to the documents contained in the Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Manual in order to comply with my state board legal and ethical requirements. I also agree that I am responsible for any resulting legal or ethical issues, lawsuits with clients or others. I agree to assume all risk involved in using or not using these materials.

Appropriate Use

The Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Manual and all information, materials, and exercises are designed for higher functioning clients who are not challenged with acute mental illness or severe personality disorders. The Disclosure process is not designed for clients who have only recently discovered the presence of sexually compulsive behavior in their relationship and are still highly activated or highly defensive emotionally. Professional judgment, clinical assessment, and best practices should be used to screen clients.

Limitation of Rights

I understand that by licensing and/or downloading the Disclosure Prep Manual or any part thereof, I may not:

  • Sell, share, lend, copy, duplicate, email, or license the Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Manual or any part thereof to others including clinicians, professionals or clients. This license is non-transferable;
  • Remove the copyright notice on the Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Manual or any part thereof

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