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Because change happens in relationship

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        • The Disclosure Prep Manual is being offered in the hope that it will positively impact your practice and your clients, building your confidence to feel thoroughly equipped and supported as you guide your clients through the process of Disclosure.

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        • Couple’s IntensivesDesigned for couples who are either healing after betrayal, are struggling to work through conflicts, or who simply want more play and connection in their relationship.
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        • Individual IntensivesDesigned for individuals who are healing childhood wounds and working to change relational patterns stemming from imperfect parenting and insecure attachment.
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        • Sex After BetrayalDesigned for women who have experienced sexual betrayal in their adult partnered relationships
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        • Sex Addiction TreatmentIf you or someone you love are struggling with sexual addiction, there is hope. Your relationships can heal, life can regain meaning and purpose, and sex can once again become a source of joy.
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        • Partner BetrayalBetrayed partners need help navigating the fragmenting experience of betrayal trauma. And they need a clear path lighting the way to hope and healing.
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        • Childhood TraumaUnderstanding your story is the key to healing, freedom and joy in your life and relationships. Let us help you change your story.
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        • Recovering RelationshipsGrow your relationship by learning how to communicate openly, show up authentically, foster emotional safety and co-create life-enhancing sex together.
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        • A Letter From The FounderLearn more about our name change to the Relational Recovery Institute and new offerings that are available.
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        • The Authentic Hope BlogOver 250 blog posts offering guidance, clarity, and inspiration to support and strengthen your healing.
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        • The Betrayal BindThe groundbreaking book providing a new model for understanding and healing partner betrayal.
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Individual Intensives

Is there a pattern that keeps popping up in your relationships that is blocking the connection you long for?

Are there parts of your childhood history that are negatively impacting you that need healed and transformed?

Do you long to be able to be more of your authentic self in all areas of your life?

Imagine a week filled with personal growth, self-reflection, and profound transformation. Our 5-day counseling Intensives are customized to provide focused attention, support, and guidance to facilitate lasting change.

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Our individual Intensives, held in the serene setting of Leesburg, VA, are individualized to focus on your unique needs. Elements include:

Holistic Healing

Drawing on over twenty years’ experience treating childhood trauma, Beth Ratchford LCSW combines attachment-focused EMDR, inner-child work, equine assisted healing, and somatic modalities to meet you where you are and help you get unstuck.

Week-Long Immersion

Our Intensive program runs from Monday to Friday, ensuring that you receive comprehensive care and attention throughout the week. Free of the distractions of work and home obligations, you’ll engage in a structured, personal growth experience that will change your life.

Reflection & Growth

Your afternoons are dedicated to self-reflection and personal growth. You’ll have the time to process your feelings, insights, and breakthroughs from the morning sessions. Homework assignments will reinforce your progress and deepen your understanding.

Equine-Assisted Healing

Mid-week, you’ll have the extraordinary opportunity to engage in a 90-minute equine-assisted learning experience. This profound connection with these magnificent animals can help you explore your emotions and inner world in a unique and transformative way.

Daily Sessions

Each morning, you will participate in a 2-hour session tailored to address your unique challenges and unfold as a cohesive healing experience.

On-Going Support

After the intensive you will recieve two follow-up sessions with Beth and she will also collaborate with your individual therapist to let them know what you accomplished during the intensive.

Are You Ready To…

Experience months’ worth of healing work in days through the intentional dedicated time spent with expert guidance and support?

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This Intensive is a Good Fit for you if…

  • You are in regular therapy addressing the impacts of childhood trauma.
  • Have an understanding the relational patterns that began in your family-of-origin.
  • Know what you would like to focus on healing and transforming.
  • Have rituals and practices in place for regular self-care and emotional regulation.

This intensive is NOT a Good Fit for you if…

  • You are new to therapy or just beginning to explore family-of-origin dynamics.
  • You are early in addiction recovery or in active addiction.
  • You are unable to travel to Leesburg VA (we do not offer virtual intensives).

Facilitator

Beth Ratchford, LCSW

Beth Ratchford has been in the field for over 20 years specializing in treating trauma, particularly family of origin-based trauma. She has trained with Laurel Parnell in the Attachment-Focused EMDR protocol, which is a modified version of the powerful tool of EMDR. AF-EMDR is a client-centered approach to EMDR that was developed for those who’ve experienced developmental and attachment trauma in childhood. Beth also is an Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association (EAGALA) certified mental health practitioner which allows her to incorporate the healing power of horses into work with clients. The intuitive nature of horses can facilitate clients being able to be present and connect more deeply to their story.

If you are ready to enroll or want to explore more about whether a childhood trauma intensive is right for you,
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Disclosure Prep Manual License Agreement

For Licensed Clinicians, CSAT Therapists/Candidates and APSATS Certified Specialists and Coaches Only

I agree that I am either: a licensed clinician working within the scope of my professional license(s) and parameters of my governing state board(s); a certified sex addiction therapist or candidate (CSAT); or an APSATS certified partner specialist or coach.  If I am not a certified CSAT clinician, or a licensed clinician experienced with sex addiction treatment, I certify that I am working under the supervision of a certified CSAT supervisor or a licensed clinician experienced in the treatment of sexual addiction, partner trauma and disclosure facilitation.

Licensing & Ethical Guidelines

I understand that state law and ethical guidelines differ from state to state and country to country. I agree that I will check with my licensing board, membership organization or attorney and agree to make any changes needed to the documents contained in the Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Manual in order to comply with my state board legal and ethical requirements. I also agree that I am responsible for any resulting legal or ethical issues, lawsuits with clients or others. I agree to assume all risk involved in using or not using these materials.

Appropriate Use

The Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Manual and all information, materials, and exercises are designed for higher functioning clients who are not challenged with acute mental illness or severe personality disorders. The Disclosure process is not designed for clients who have only recently discovered the presence of sexually compulsive behavior in their relationship and are still highly activated or highly defensive emotionally. Professional judgment, clinical assessment, and best practices should be used to screen clients.

Limitation of Rights

I understand that by licensing and/or downloading the Disclosure Prep Manual or any part thereof, I may not:

  • Sell, share, lend, copy, duplicate, email, or license the Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Manual or any part thereof to others including clinicians, professionals or clients. This license is non-transferable;
  • Remove the copyright notice on the Relational Recovery Disclosure Prep Manual or any part thereof

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Michelle Mays, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC are the owners of all intellectual property rights in the Disclosure Prep Manual and all parts thereof including all copyrights and trademarks. This license agreement does not convey or transfer any ownership or proprietary interest in any intellectual property rights. I agree not to claim copyright in, or exercise ownership of the Disclosure Prep Manual or any part thereof.

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In no event will Michelle Mays, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC be liable for any consequential, indirect, incidental, or special damages resulting from any claim (including any cause of action sounding in contract, tort, negligence, strict liability or products liability) arising out of the use by you of the Disclosure Prep Manual or this license agreement including, but not limited to, any lost profits or lost savings, damages resulting from business interruption,  even if Michelle Mays, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC have been advised of the possibility of such damages. The maximum liability of Michelle Mays, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC to you for any cause whatsoever will be no greater than the price paid to Michelle Mays, Relational Recovery, Inc. and/or Relational Recovery Press, LLC under this license agreement for the Disclosure Prep Manual or any part thereof. The foregoing limitations and exclusions apply to the extent permitted by applicable law.

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