State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Ester Perel “Betrayal hurts but it can also be healed” Ester Perel writes.  Perel has traveled the globe learning all she can about the time-honored, universally forbidden but also universally practiced taboo we call infidelity.  What does it exactly mean? Why does betrayal hurt so much? Why does betrayal happen even in seemingly happy marriages?  Is it … [Read more...]