What is the least addressed topic when dealing with sexual betrayal? The topic that is often left completely out of couple’s therapy? The topic that often gets almost no focus in addiction treatment? The topic that betrayed partners can hardly find a book or article about? You got it. It’s sex. Despite the fact that the betrayal is sexual in nature and cuts to the core of trust and intimacy in … [Read more...]
September Recommended Reading
She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner Ian Kerner, an evangelist of the female orgasm and sex therapist, believes that the secret to a woman's arousal process is to become "cliterate" and to master the art of oral sex. This fun and informative book is a "virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure". Unveil the mystery of female satisfaction and bring more … [Read more...]
MUSINGS ON THE SEX AFTER BETRAYAL INTENSIVE
In June we held the first Sex After Betrayal: Reclaiming Your Sexual Self therapy intensive. It was a transformative five days of learning, growing, stretching, hoping and risking. As we wrapped up our time together and I reflected on all that had happened, there were several things that struck me. Below are some of my musings as a result of spending time with the amazing group of women who … [Read more...]